MY YEAR OF TRANSFORMATION©
by Erica Grooms
Affirmation for Transformation:
“I am deeply connected to my desires and I am willing to give up control of the outcomes.“
Expectation is desire merged with belief and trust. Giving up control is one of the hardest things to do and it is not our fault that we feel like we need to control the outcomes. We humans have spent centuries, lifetimes, living in a world of survival and we were taught to control everything to get anything. My clients often say that giving up control is the hardest thing to do. Our mind means well to protect us and keep us safe, but it also keeps us stuck. Staying small does not allow much growth. Fear has a similar frequency and energy as control. I observed this in others and in my own experiences. I grew up in a professional career that had not previously experienced female leadership. I blazed trails, knew where I was going, and how I was going to get there. I had a family that depended on me for financial support. I used to be all about control and I felt that is what I needed to do to be successful. My old friend and mentor used to say it’s lonely at the top and I knew that all too well.
When we start becoming more aware of energy and the law of attraction we shift more into flow instead of a never-ending fight uphill. We learn how to trust more and become more heart-centered leadership.The key is aligning our values and beliefs with our desires. That means changing our definitions of our beliefs and releasing control over all assumptions and outcomes.
Many years ago, I learned about the true power and energy behind our thoughts and words. I learned how powerful it is to no longer say or write the word “goals”, and replaced it with the word “desires”. When we focus on our desires and trust that the you-niverse will deliver them in magical ways beyond what we could imagine, it is so much easier to get what we want.
When you know who you are it is more difficult to hang out in lower frequency and the energy of lack or sorrow. Meaning you start aligning with your truth and connection to all that is. True bliss is the experience of our desires manifesting in ways that are truly magical beyond our imagination. When we give up control of outcomes, the how and the when, and focus more on feeling and action, we get what we want. Life in general and your work become much easier, less stressful. Becoming more comfortable and satisfied with what is and being in the flow of things, instead of control of things, has become my lifestyle. When we care more about how we feel we can observe synchronicity and the magic of co-creating. we understand that our energy is our most precious commodity.
Desire and expectation feel one way and desire and doubt feels another way. If your expectations feel doubtful, negative, reluctant or resistance, accomplishing your desires will be an uphill battle. If you are trying to control others it won’t work. You can only control yourself and how you feel. If you are trying to control the outcomes you are self-sabotaging your own possibilities and happiness. We have an abundance of opportunities in our energy field, but we can only attract what we reflect.
Just being positive doesn’t work either. While positive thinking is important, when a positive definition of our belief and trust is absent it will be an uphill battle. I have observed many professionals through the years fall short of their business and career desires because they were not aligned with them. If you are aligned with your desires, instead of focusing on what you want or don’t want, you are directing your energy towards the feeling of belief instead of lack. Most of us believe after we have accomplished what we want. Do you tell yourself you will be happy when… (fill in the blank) you get what you want? The law of attraction requires you to turn it around and believe first. Most of us live, experience, and then explain, instead of explain and then live. Creation is activating a vibration in advance of the manifestation.
A belief is a thought that you keep thinking about and it becomes a definition which is really powerful. If you have practiced it, it is expected. Receiving is knowing. Allow yourself to feel thoughts come that bring you pleasure. Negative emotions and resistance will keep your desires from coming to you. All potentials are there for you. There really is no problem to solve because its all solvable. How can you delight yourself with a co-creative experience? What excites you in the moment? What makes you happy and allows you to keep thinking positive thoughts? Only care about this moment of satisfaction. How do you choose to feel now? What does it feel like to BE and HAVE what you desire in the moment? What inspires you in the moment and what can you act upon that is in alignment to your desire? This is an action-based planet. It is our experience that is important, not controlling the outcomes. The focus is in the moment, not the past or the future.
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